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Help Me Communicate Introduction to CONTACT Voice tone and Talk Speed Mod 2 Part 8

Jan 16, 2019
 

Hi all Happy new year.

I’m Mike

Welcome to Help Me Communicate.

This week I’m introducing the release the 11th video in the new multi-media and animated CONTACT Communications Program for Becoming a Great Communicator and Leader.  

Learn 10 tips for positive and effective body language and facial expression. Body language and facial expression are keys to effective communicating and some claim it makes up over 70% of communications. 

Be aware of it and control it if you want to be a great communicator and leader in sensitive, crucial and corrective conversations. 

We’ve gone through 7 parts of outing yourself wisely using effective word choice. Words are key. Body language and facial expression can drastically alter how those effective words are communicated and interpreted. 

That’s why people say body language, facial esxpressiona nd voice tone make up 70% of communications. Because they change definitions of our words. 

We can...

CONTACT Mod 2 Part 8. Body Language, Facial Expression

Jan 16, 2019
 

CONTACT Mod 2 Part 8. Body Language, Facial Expression — be aware open and engaging.

Be aware of your own body, facial and tone expressions and learn to read others.

To get better at reading others, be aware, notice their body language and ask about their HIP while you’re watching.

Hi everybody, this part of CONTACT Out yourself wisely is about effective and positive body language and facial expression. It’s over 70% of communications and can easily change the meaning of statements and questions.

Being aware of your own body language is key to communicating, especially in crucial, sensitive or corrective conversations. Reading other people body language is also a key to leading and navigating difficult conversations successfully.

The simple success strategy is to be open, interested and engaging. Here’s 10 tips for effective positive body language and facial expression. A couple are tips to help you read and adjust other people’s body language.  ...

Help Me Communicate. Introduction to mod 2 Part 7 of CONTACT. 2 Mistakes to Avoid

Jan 02, 2019
 

Hi all Merry Christmas and happy holiday season,

Welcome to Help Me Communicate.

This week I’m introducing the release the 10th video in the new multi-media and animated CONTACT Communications Program for Becoming a Great Communicator and Leader.  

2 common mistakes to avoid if you want to be a great communicator in sensitive, crucial or corrective conversations. 

As we move through this holiday season, communication can be tough with family members at get together’s.

There’s 2 common mistakes people make when communicating especially in sensitive crucial or corrective situations. See if you can stop doing them this holiday season.

When you learn to be a great communicator in sensitive, crucial and corrective conversations, you will be a positive influence on others and be seen as a good  co-worker, friend, and family member. You will have a positive effect on those you work with, live with and visit and you will attract more successes in your...

2 communications mistakes to avoid that hurt sensitive, crucial or corrective conversations. CONTACT Mod 2 Part 7

Jan 02, 2019
 

Hi everybody, This part of CONTACT Out Yourself Wisely, is about 2 communications mistakes to avoid that hurt Important conversations.  Avoid these mistakes so you keep people engaged and moving towards solutions, especially when the conversation is sensitive, intense or corrective.

Avoid negative labeling and name calling

Avoid expecting others to know what you’re thinking, feeling or expecting. Tell Them, Don't ask them to guess. 

Why avoid these 2 things? 1st thing, In my experience, negative labeling and name calling often put people on the defensive and makes them want to attack back. It might turn them off and de-motivate them, make them go into a cocoon. Either way it blocks effective communication.

What happens for you if I call you dumb, or ignorant, insensitive, egotistical?  Do you like it when someone labels you as a bad person in some way or calls you a negative name? Probably not. Do you feel like engaging in positive or solution oriented...

Introduction to 8 words and phrases NOT to use. CONTACT

Dec 19, 2018
 

This week is an Introduction to the next part of Module 2, part 6 of Out Yourself Wisely in the CONTACT Program — I share the 8 words and phrases NOT to use in sensitive, important or corrective conversations so you become a better friend, spouse, brother, sister, father, mother, relative or leader.

When you avoid the 8 words and phrases in crucial and important conversations, you relationship become more healthy and functional. As a result you get to live in more peace of mind.

That’s what good communicating does. Gives us more peace of mind and healthier relationships.  Good communicating helps us get the job we want. Helps us become better leaders and takes down roadblocks.

If you’re having any of these challenges, becoming a better communicator will help you.

Having conflicts with people at work. Customers, co-workers, etc.  

Fighting with kids, spouse, friends or other people important in your life.

Having a hard time finding a job.

Having a hard...

8 Words and Phrases NOT to USE - CONTACT Mod 2 Part 6

Dec 19, 2018
 

Hi everybody,

This part of CONTACT Out Yourself Wisely, is about what Words NOT to USE, so you keep people engaged and moving towards solutions, especially when the conversation is sensitive or intense.

There are 8 words and phrases NOT to USE. They can put people on the defensive easily, and block effective communicating especially when the outcome and emotional stakes are high.

They can be unhealthy to you personally too. When we use these 8 words/phrases in our communications with self, our self-talk, they can deflate us, diminish our self esteem, invoke fear, or lack of confidence. Do you want to use words that make you and others feel anxious, deflated, embarrassed and angry?

Or words that make you and others feel safe, comfortable, confident and like you and they matter?   

Do you want to spread and grow negative emotions with your word choice or positive feelings?

If you want to be a good communicator and leader you’ll have to grow positive feelings in others,...

Introduction to The Science of Emotions and Feelings

Dec 05, 2018
 

This week is an Introduction to the next section of Out Yourself Wisely in the CONTACT Program — The Science of Emotions and Feelings.  Do you want to be a great communicator and leader?

This video will help you better understand emotions and feelings so you can control your spiked emotions and engage others easier.

I want to help you prevent emotional roadblocks to effective communicating, building healthy relationships and living in Peace of Mind. With more understanding of emotions and feelings your ability to control those unwanted emotions and choose your feelings will make you a better friend, spouse, brother, sister, father, mother or leader.

Over the next couple months I’m making a new online multi media, animated CONTACT Communications program. I’m releasing a new video weekly that is part of the program. It’s free as I build the program. Take advantage.

Once it’s complete, it will be a paid product at SuccessToolChest.com offered with a...

Science of Emotions and Feelings CONTACT Mod 2 Part 5

Dec 05, 2018
 

Science of Emotion CONTACT Mod 2 Part 5

Welcome everybody, This part of CONTACT is about the ‘Science of Emotion and Feelings. Controlling feelings is one of the biggest challenges in communicating when situations are intense. They can unwillingly take over direction and outcomes of a conversation. I want to help you prevent that.

When we understand how emotions and feelings work, we can take control of them.

Emotions and Feelings affect our relationships, and our destiny to a great degree.

Do you have control of your emotions, or do they have control of you? It’s different in different circumstances for all. Do you want to have control of your feelings and emotions?

Have you ever been overtaken by an emotion and found it hard to shake? It seemed to have grabbed you and held on tight. Me too. I haven’t met a person that hasn’t.  

That’s when reason dives and we do and say things we later wish we hadn’t.

Do you want to be able to control those...

The 26 Enemies in the Jungle of Life

Dec 05, 2018

This is the list of the 26 Enemies in the Jungle of Life.  Napoleon Hill listed them in his last book 'Grow Rich with Peace of Mind'. 

In our journey to live a peaceful and fulfilling life, we are passing through our individual jungle of life and working at defeating these 26 enemies. 

The closer we get to conquering them all, the more peace we feel and the richer we become.

Most of these are negative emotions we struggle to shift. Some are negative thought patterns, and ways of doing things, that trigger negative emotions in ourselves and others. 

Watch the Science of Emotions and Feelings top better understand how they work.

Watch the entire CONTACT Communications  Program for becoming a great communicator and leader, to learn ways to control your negative emotion and be more positive in your communication with self and others. 

 

  1. FEAR
  2. GREED
  3. INTOLERANCE
  4. EGOTISM
  5. CRUELTY
  6. MERCILESSNESS
  7. INJUSTICE
  8. SLANDER
  9. LUST
  10. ANGER
  11. HATRED
  12. JEALOUSY
  13. IMPATIENCE
  14. ...

Help Me Communicate. Oct 10, 2018. Intro to Expressing feelings accurately and Effectively.

Oct 19, 2018
 

This is an Introduction  to Out Yourself Wisely - Expressing Feelings accurately and effectively. If you want to be a great leader you will have to get good at expressing yourself effectively to engage others. 

In this week’s animated video I share the importance of sharing feelings accurately and effectively.  

O IN Contact Stands for Out Yourself Wisely. How to share and express effectively. 

There’ s lots to consider when expressing yourself. Do you want to be accurate in expressing yourself? Do you want people to get you?

Expressing feelings and emotions are a big part of connection with others. Learn how to do it effectively in the CONTACT Communications Program for becoming a great communicator and leader.

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